Married vectors. Vector marriages by zodiac signs

How do people get into vector marriage? Exactly the same as usual. Such marriages can be concluded for love, with frantic passion, or by agreement. The reason for concluding a vector union may be monetary relations.

What is a vector marriage? This is a dangerous union from the point of view of the horoscope. People who enter into such relationships are unequal.

In any marriage, the first stage, after the all-consuming passion subsides, is grinding in. The parties gradually get to know each other and determine the degree of trust and openness themselves.

Even folk wisdom says that you should not open up completely to your soulmate; there should be a little bit of misunderstanding between the spouses. Without this, it is impossible to surprise each other.

This is impossible in a vector marriage. The roles of spouses are not equal. One of them in such a marriage sooner or later finds himself in a dependent position, and cannot even delineate the boundaries to the extent that he allows intrusion into personal space. The “master” completely subjugates him.

But this does not mean that one spouse is completely under the influence of the other. It is impossible to predict what happens during a vector marriage, and how they get out of it if both parties get tired of the constant hidden confrontation.

At the first stage of a vector marriage, like any union, there is passion. Spouses may not think about the distribution of roles, believing that everything goes naturally for them. But then, when the “honeymoon” comes to an end, sexual relationships level out, everyday life comes first and... first those around you, and then one of the couple - most often the one who can be called the owner - begins to notice that something is not going well. So.

It is very rare that the scenario changes when vector relationships exist. How does the owner feel when he realizes that his partner has become completely different?

If he felt that his partner was beginning to degrade, became addicted to alcoholic beverages or, worse, drugs, wouldn’t he feel guilty and would he subordinate his entire life to caring for his “weak” half? Or will he find the strength to break this vector ring?

However, taking such a step is not so easy - after a vector marriage, it takes a very long time for both the strong and the weak side to come to their senses. But if you manage to break the addiction, then this is a sign that in the near future you will have the strength to make a mind-blowing career.

Sometimes it happens that vector relationships develop a little differently, “on equal terms.” One might think that this is a harmonious relationship, reducing all the theories of astrologers to zero and refuting the canons. Unfortunately, it is not. With this development of events, both partners break down

How are vector marriages concluded? Just like ordinary ones - out of great love, in a fit of passion, when there is no time to think about the hierarchy in relationships. Sometimes vector alliances are concluded by chance, for monetary reasons or otherwise, by conspiracy.

By the way, such vector marriages are the most resilient. The roles are distributed at the beginning, and the second party, even if according to the astrological horoscope it should take on the role of the dominant, adheres to the role of the subordinate in the initial period and switches to the dominant one unnoticed by its other half, without causing moral harm to it.

We can cite, as an example, several of the most aggressive vector alliances. There are 23 of them in total. The first place shows the sign of the owner, the second - his subordinate. These are Dog - Taurus, Rat - Libra, Dragon - Cancer, Snake - Scorpio.

Is it possible to live happily in a vector marriage? Yes, if you follow a small condition - do not try to change the roles that are predetermined from above. Then the vector marriage will not cause any physical or moral damage.

If a couple has entered into a vector union, even without knowing it, then in order not to destroy it, she must know that there is no need to try to argue with fate. Let everything go as it turns out. And a vector marriage can become happy.

There is such a thing as a vector relationship between a man and a woman. They began to be studied relatively recently, but they help explain many phenomena in our lives and connections between people.

What are they and why are they sent?

The concept of vector relationships appeared at the end of the twentieth century, thanks to astrologer Gregory Kvasha. He compiled a detailed marriage horoscope, in which he paid special attention to vector relationships.

In the eastern horoscope there are twelve signs that form a vector ring. They line up according to the master-servant principle, walking one after another: Rat and Horse and Boar, Boar and Dragon, Dragon and Rabbit, Rabbit and Rooster, Rooster and Dog, Dog and Bull, Bull and Tiger, Tiger and Goat, Goat and Snake, Snake and Monkey, Monkey and Rat.

A special attraction forms between these couples, which is quite difficult to explain. Moreover, the relationship does not depend on the personal characteristics of the signs. The term “master” means that this partner will be dominant throughout their life together. The distribution of roles occurs unconsciously, the second in a couple, that is, the “servant” gives himself completely to his partner, not understanding his pathological dependence and desire to be close.

The “servant” sacrifices himself, and the “master” dominates and enjoys power. Such relationships cannot be called happy, there is no equality in them, they often destroy the personality, causing a lot of negative emotions. At the same time, the energy of the relationship is strong, passion boils in them.

If you meet people who are compatible in many respects, then the relationship can last a long time. However, if it is necessary to destroy the union, separation occurs very difficultly, sometimes for a long time with periodic returns or separation “not completely”. Vector relationships do not predict happiness or great troubles, there is simply a strong energetic connection between the signs.

Such relationships are sent to someone who needs a sharp change in circumstances, who needs to develop and undergo trials, but he just can’t decide to do it. Vector marriage can help a person become more understanding and developed and move to a new stage in their development.

Distribution of roles by year of birth

Vector relationships based on the influence of the year are built in different ways. Who is the master and who is the servant can be seen in the table:

• Rat and Horse. High level, developed intelligence of both partners. They love communication and always have a lot of friends. The Horse's daydreaming does not always please the Rat. The Rat is more practical, so the Horse with its head in the clouds can irritate it. They will not give in to each other, which will lead to certain problems.
• Horse and Boar. The Pig is carefree and a little stubborn. The horse is endowed with passion and romance. Relationships are made up of emotions, and not always positive ones. Quarrels often arise, attempts to solve everyday problems from different sides. For a marriage to work out, the Horse needs to become more humble, which is problematic for it.
• Boar and Dragon. Such a union can be harmonious, since the signs understand each other well.
• Dragon and Rabbit. The Dragon has a high level of energy and will take care of the Rabbit, so they have every chance of living a long time. The Dragon is practical, and the Rabbit has a developed spirituality, which will help them in their life together.
• Rabbit and Rooster. The beginning will not be easy. They will have to learn to understand each other in order to live together.
• Rooster and Dog. The union is complex; these two signs have little in common with each other. Both are active and combative, defending their point of view. The Rooster loves to lead and be a leader, but the Dog is also looking for its place in the social group, which creates certain problems in the couple.
• Dog and Bull. They have devotion, so they can build quite successful relationships. The Ox is stubborn, so the Dog will have to come to terms with this, otherwise constant conflicts are inevitable.
• Bull and Tiger. They are opposites. The Tiger is playful, the Ox is practical and serious. It is difficult for their energies to intersect.
• Tiger and Goat. is a support in a couple and brings stability. He protects the Goat and helps her. Harmony will reign in such a relationship, but at the beginning it will not be possible to avoid some mistakes.
• Goat and Snake. Both want relationships and family. The energy is strong, there is passion between them, as a rule there are no quarrels, but they keep grievances inside themselves.
• Snake and Monkey. The love of such a couple will not last long. The Snake will strangle the Monkey, which will ultimately destroy love, although energetically they are quite compatible.
• Monkey and Rat. They have every chance of success, as the partners will support each other. There is comfort and prosperity in their home.

According to zodiac signs

Relationships based on a vector can be based not only on years, but also on zodiac signs. This is called a “small vector ring”.

Vector relationships can develop only by year, only by month of birth, or be double, which is an increase in energy and the receipt of a “double master”, and this makes the union unpredictable, full of emotions and contradictions. As can be seen from the table above, for example, for the sign of Pisces, the servant is Leo, and the master is Libra.

The owner may show strong neglect of the partner, a tendency towards manipulation, and cruel dominance. However, there are also strong alliances between such vector pairs, if the combination is successful.

What kind of relationship do the partners have?

Between vector partners it is characterized by unpredictability. Love and passion arise quickly and their subsequent lives are filled with various emotions and chaos. At the same time, the Master rules, takes, and the Servant gives energy, completely submitting.

If the dominant is strong, then he can become extremely selfish, completely suppressing the will and personality of the partner, while it is quite problematic for the Servant to break out of this circle, since he is dependent without understanding why.

Their relationship develops regardless of logic. It would seem that incompatibility should destroy the union, but it continues to hold on, sometimes for a long time, exhausting both partners.

In a relationship:

• High emotionality.
• Chaos reigns.
• If a personality has vulnerabilities, this leads to its destruction.
• Partners open up to each other easily.
• Partners are in constant tension.

Signs

To understand whether you really have a vector relationship, evaluate the following signs:

• The vector connection is hard to break, it lasts for years without understanding what actually keeps partners close.
• The owner is jealous, strives to return the Servant if he suddenly decides to leave.
• Relationships thin the energy field. You get tired of them, vulnerabilities appear, and any criticism is perceived painfully.
• The Master is annoyed by the actions and actions of the Servant, and the Servant depends on compliments.
• The Master does not value the Servant enough, which ultimately leads to the appearance of complexes, self-doubt, dependence on a partner and his opinion.

Pros and cons of marriage

Vector relationships have both pros and cons.

Pros:

• Variety of feelings, a vivid expression of emotions, the opportunity to experience strong love.
• Partners open up easily to each other, there is rapid development of relations.
• Feeling mutual understanding.

Minuses:

• Constant conflicts even for minor reasons.
• Vulnerability, thinning of protection.
• Constant stress which is mentally exhausting and undermines mental and physical health.

What to do if you are already in such a union?

Rarely does anyone act wisely and practically, so one day you may realize that you are in a vector union. There's no need to give up everything at once There are a few tips to help you cope with situations and maintain mental stability:

• Necessary show maximum calm.
• Rate, how much such relationships affect you, your well-being.
• Whatever you do, but The Master will always be right, and the Servant will also think so.
• If you are in the role of a Servant, you will have to forget about equality and especially about attempts to dominate, it will bring nothing but quarrels.
• If you want to take a break or see each other less often, then you should take advantage of this. This way you can take a break from each other.
• If you are the Master, but learn to understand your partner and feel sorry for him.
• Don't rush into an official marriage, evaluate whether you can really stand it in such a relationship.
• If you decide to have a relationship, then be prepared that everything life will be stormy, sometimes exhausting.

Children

A child in such a union requires special treatment. Parents' nervousness and constant scandals affect their children. In such families, the development of sociopathy and neurasthenia in children is common.

Often vector partners give birth to children with highly developed intelligence, creativity and even genius. in a vector marriage it may be uncontrollable, as it adopts the parents’ communication model.

How to get out of a couple?

It is quite difficult to leave such a union; it will require a lot of strength, motivation and desire to change your life. First, you need to understand why you want to break up. The motivating factor will be the destruction of personality, the presence of negativity, and constant conflicts.

The best way to end such a relationship is to decide to leave immediately and forever, closing all avenues of communication. It’s good if you have the opportunity to go to another city. A change of scenery, new acquaintances will help destroy the created karmic connection. Leaving will require willpower, so as soon as you feel it surge, immediately pack your things and leave.

The gap can take years. A woman may say that she can no longer live with a man, but at the same time she continues to do this, since she is emotionally, physically, mentally dependent on him.

If you manage to break out of such a relationship, then not only relief comes, but your life changes dramatically. Freedom, success, new people and a new, more prosperous union with another partner come.

The master may not let the servant go and wants to renew the connection. And at this moment it is important that the Servant does not listen to him.

That is why it is recommended to cut off all contacts and not try to find out anything about your partner’s life, so as not to hide him again.

When trying to communicate, you should deviate from it and not agree to meetings, even friendly ones. The likelihood that the couple will get together in this case is very high, only the relationship itself will remain the same.

Vector relationships at work

In the professional sphere, such relationships are also unpredictable. If there is a subordinate in the role of the Master, then he will look for any ways to reduce the authority of the boss. If a subordinate is a Servant, then sooner or later he will be able to understand this or someone will open his eyes, after which he will drop everything and leave.

Whether or not to stay in such a relationship is up to everyone to decide for themselves.. If you love a person and are ready to make concessions, then your life together can be happy. If the union causes only negative emotions, exhausts and does not give a feeling, then you will have to think about whether it is really worth saving.

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Grigory Kvasha

“Science and Religion” No. 3, 2000.

Vector marriages.

If anyone doesn’t know or has forgotten, I highly advise you to know and remember: there is such a phenomenon in the structural horoscope - a vector ring in which pairs of signs swirl - one of them is the master, the other is the servant. Here it is: Horse => Boar => Dragon => Cat => Rooster => Dog => Bull => Tiger => Goat => Snake => Monkey => Rat => Horse... To the left of each sign is the owner, on the right is the servant.

Usually, people’s relationships have a pendulum nature: having reached the limit, hitting a dead end, they will definitely swing in the other direction. Therefore, in ordinary couples, first one partner and then the other can take turns gaining the upper hand. It’s not at all the same in a vector pair: there are no oscillations here, the energy goes only in one direction - from the servant to the master, who always reigns supreme.

This scary ring is a vector one. Between the master and the servant, unpredictable and indescribable relationships arise (being aware of this, I have nevertheless been describing this structure of the horoscope for many years now), beneficial and destructive at the same time. In all vector interactions, a powerful reaction occurs, all processes go faster and more intense, energy is released that heats up everything around, and a vortex arises that twists, bends space, and can drive you crazy. There is no logic in vector relationships, the mind has no power over them, they develop against the will of a person, unconsciously.

Now imagine that a vector couple (master sign and servant sign) enter into a marital union or enter into a love relationship. When meeting with such a couple, discerning people sense that the love here is not really love and that the matter is generally unclean... The writer Nina Berberova (Bull) talks about her relationship with her husband, Vladislav Khodasevich (Dog): “The ordinary standards of a “husband” and “wives”, “brothers” and “sisters” would not apply to us. My happiness was not quite of the quality that is usually defined in words: joy, light, bliss, well-being, pleasure, peace. It consisted in something else: in the fact that I felt life more strongly next to him... burning with life in its contrasts... the “intensity” of the charge was sometimes such that any miracle seemed possible.”

The vector twists the master and servant into one cocoon, they are perceived as one whole. They actually cease to exist as independent units. It was said about Alexey Tolstoy and Natalia Krandievskaya (one of the famous vector couples, he is a Horse, she is a Rat) that they have a common blood circulation. Is it good? Indeed, in such a union, a person loses his protective shell and even loses his own personality traits encoded in his annual sign. There are no clear answers to the questions that arise about the vector ring. There is only one method of understanding this strange structure: to describe cases of vector interactions again and again. Only descriptions of combinations, the testimonies of the heroes themselves can give a sense of what it is like - a vector pair... And let us not judge the master in advance and feel sorry for the servant. Both pay and both receive rewards. Let God judge!

At one time, the romance between Georges Sand (Rat) and Alfred de Musset (Horse) shook up the whole of France - so much energy was released from their relationship! Dozens of books and articles are devoted to their love story. Famous people argued about who was to blame for the transience of their violent passion - he or she. And they themselves could not understand their feelings, because this is simply not given to the heroes of any vector pair. George Sand wrote to Musset: “Farewell, farewell, I don’t want to leave you and I don’t want to take you again. I don’t want anything, nothing... I don’t love you more - and I adore you forever. I don't want you anymore, but I can't do without you. It seems that only one heavenly lightning could heal me by destroying me. Goodbye, stay, leave, but don’t say that I’m not suffering. This alone can make me suffer even more, my love, my life, my heart, my brother, my blood, go away, but kill me by leaving.”

One would like to doubt the complete sincerity of what is written - she is a writer after all - suddenly all this is her fantasy, all this heavenly lightning, all this blood and love at the same time as dislike. But I, as a person who has talked many times with people who have been in a vector “remake,” testify: this is surprisingly accurate - she is a writer after all! - a description of the horror and simultaneous bliss of the situation. Musset, by the way, said a very short, quiet phrase, but in magical power it surpasses the tirade of George Sand: “There was a moment in your arms, the memory of which still bothers me, and will for a long time prevent me from approaching another woman.” There is a greater mystery here than even the mystery of love...

Of course, in love, vector relationships do not reach their apotheosis in one day. It is empirically clear that the degree of impact is proportional to the time of communication. Unbeknownst to themselves, people fall into a trap, they merge, become one, leave their shells, so parting seems impossible to them. But you must admit that living without a sign, without your own “I”, which is rapidly melting away in a vector marriage, is not an easy task, and for a long time almost impossible.

I responsibly say that vector ring relationships are not recommended for family life. Such a family lives on a powder keg. An explosion will definitely happen. When - no one knows. The breakup between Musset and George Sand shocked everyone also because they seemed like a painfully ideal couple. The vector ring always creates these. They are perceived as a single being.

The couple Sergei Yesenin (Goat) and Isadora Duncan (Tiger) looked the same. “They are smeared with the same world, similar to each other, tailored to the same image, both are talented beyond measure, both are emotional, unrestrained, reckless...” one of their friends wrote about them.

Volumes have been written about their relationship, everyone sees something different, but everyone recognizes the anomaly here, explaining what happened to them by the uniqueness of the spouses themselves. This reason cannot be denied either. In the whirlwind of vector adventures, there is neither cause nor effect: either they behave this way because they are in a vector marriage, or they ended up in a vector marriage because they wanted to behave this way. Yesenin threatening to jump out of the window; Duncan, in her dance, falling to her knees in front of Yesenin; scandals, jealousy, mutual reproaches, sudden separations and stormy meetings, and again scandals, scandals.

It seemed to many that this was already madness. How many times Yesenin beat and destroyed everything around her, but Duncan could have done the same (fortunately, the means allowed). Isadora alternately hides from Yesenin and then begins to look for him. She admits to her friend Roberts that if she does not find her husband who has disappeared again, she will die or go crazy. All these discords and reconciliations with mountains of broken porcelain and crystal and mangled expensive furniture would have been funny if not for the reality of the tragedy that everyone around them felt.

And here is the opinion of another friend who observed another pogrom perpetrated by Yesenin: “Isadora enjoyed this wild spectacle, what came over the gentle, shy Isadora?.. His attacks had the same pacifying effect on her as a crazy race in a car or a flight in an airplane.” . Soon she herself is enthusiastically throwing plates against the walls.

Vector spouses cannot find a place for themselves on this cozy ball, as if they are no longer people, as if the earth itself no longer holds them. They take turns running away from each other, crossing the ocean back and forth. In M. Desty's memoirs, Yesenin and Duncan appear as two lost souls. Irina Odoev-tseva describes the atmosphere in the couple’s home more figuratively: “Is it fun? No, it's not fun here. It’s not only not fun, but somehow surprisingly uncomfortable. And although the room is warm, it seems that there is a draft coming from the windows hung with pink velvet curtains. There is something unsatisfactory in the air, and even the crystal chandelier glows somehow hysterically bright among the smoke of cigarettes.” Surprisingly, these quiet words are no less striking than the description of the famous scandals of famous spouses.

This romance, this marriage, lasted less than two years. However, during this time there were several novels, plays, and countless memoirs and memoirs. They separated in 1923. Yesenin’s death occurred in 1925 (December 28), and Duncan died on August 17, 1927. The circumstances of the two deaths are surprisingly intertwined. Yesenin committed suicide in the very hotel room where he and Isadora were staying; she was strangled by a scarf, the same scarf that symbolized Yesenin himself in her dances. Mysticism, mysticism in everything... Vector...

And here is another famous vector couple: Anna Akhmatova (Bull) and Nikolai Gumilyov (Dog). This union, as depicted by its participants and witnesses, looks like a fierce duel of freedom-loving passionate natures. Even before marriage she writes:

What can marriage add to the relationship of two fires merging into one fire? They had everything that a vector pair should have, otherwise Akhmatova would not have admitted:

Anyone who has been in a vector union knows how the soul is drunk through a straw, all without a trace.

Passion completely captured Anna. Nikolai Gumilyov wrote that “she still wanted to wage a “love war” - to torment and torment, to arrange scenes of jealousy with stormy explanations and stormy reconciliations...”.

Fatal, vector love ruined this union...

The ring does not spare royalty either. And although Emperor Alexander II (Tiger) was not in a vector marriage, the vector played a fatal role in his fate. He met with Ekaterina Mikhailovna Dolgorukova (Koza). She is young and beautiful, she is not yet 18 years old. He is in the prime of his life, he is 47, he is kind, courteous, after all, he is an emperor... So far there is nothing particularly vectorial. However, simple love did not end here.

“A late passion completely captured Alexander II; it became the main impulse of his life. She suppressed the responsibilities of a husband and father; she exerted influence on major political issues; she subjugated his conscience and all of him until his death” (from the memoirs of M. Paleolog). Here the vector, as they say, takes on flesh and blood, it is already pushing out other topics from the life of the emperor, just as a cuckoo pushes other chicks out of the nest. Marriage is essentially designed to save strength, love is designed to inspire and inspire... But this is not the case with the vector, it does not give strength, but takes it away, completely disconnecting a person from external life.

Here is the emperor’s confession: “Since I fell in love with you, other women have ceased to exist for me... For a whole year, when you pushed me away, and also during the time that you spent in Italy, I did not want and did not approach any woman.”

“Frequent meetings of lovers filled them with rare happiness. Alexander Nikolaevich managed to create a delightful lover out of an inexperienced girl. She belonged to him entirely. She gave him her soul, mind, imagination, will, feelings...” (M. Paleologue). And again, once again I want to stop the author of the lines. Completeness! I gave my soul, my will... All these are big words! Who verified the fact of soul transfer? What instruments were used to record this transmission? Where are the witnesses? It turns out that there is a witness - a structural horoscope. He testifies: yes, in a vector marriage the soul is given, just as everything is given, without a trace.

The most common vector scenario is when happiness and unhappiness, pleasure and torment, delight and despair go hand in hand and reach their climax. It happens that the exacerbation occurs so rapidly that a breakup is inevitable, but the scars of the former merger remain for life.

Here is the story of a vector pair of ice dancers, favorite figure skaters. Maya Usova (Dragon), Alexander Zhulin (Cat). A third element was added to the pair - Oksana Grischuk (Boar), as a result of which a completely wild vector triangle was formed, which cost a lot of strength and health to all its sides.

How many times have they lived through love and betrayal, meeting and separation in dance, and how many times in life? It is known that Maya went through fifteen depressions, two of which were severe.

This “ice” story ended, if not idyllic, then quite encouragingly. A castling took place, an exchange of partners, or partners, as you wish, resulting in the formation of the pair Platov-Usova (Goat-Dragon) and Zhulin-Grischuk (Cat-Boar). U. Maya Usova and Alexander Zhulin began a fundamentally new life, since their vector alliance disintegrated, their vector nightmare ended. I think that in the end it was Zhulin who was most fortunate, who was a servant in alliance with Usova, and is now free. But, as we see from Usova’s example, the vector ring, not sparing the servants, cripples the owners even more, breaking their psyche. For the structural horoscope and its creator (me, therefore), the most important thing so far is the usual demonstration of the anomaly of a vector marriage.

Finally, the example is not tragic, although, how can I say... Maria Mironova (Dog) and Alexander Menaker (Bull). From the memoirs of Maria Vladimirovna: “Alexander Semenovich Menaker, when we met, was already a famous artist, and I was a nobody. And if it weren't for him. maybe they would never have recognized me. After all, he buried himself for my sake, deliberately faded into the background on the stage (emphasis mine. - Author). Everyone thought that I was first and in charge, but everything rested on him - the repertoire, the direction, and the complexities of our existence. He always took the fire upon himself, and there was a lot of fire.” We have before us a rare case when the owner objectively evaluates the vector sacrifice of the servant. It remains to be noted that Mironova lived 86 years, and Menaker 69 years, although the age difference between them is only three years.

How, after all, should people behave who happen to find themselves in a vector marriage, about which so many frightening things are told here, right up to the loss of their “protective shell”? Run? But there is love, a joint household, and often children. What to do to save the family? First of all, don't panic. Take a closer look at your life, compare it with other cases of vector marriages, try to evaluate the power of this phenomenon over you. Understand yourself: do you like what is happening to you or not? Remember that it is always easier to go with the wind than against the wind, especially if it is not a wind, but a hurricane. It is important to know that the master is always right, right in his own eyes, in the eyes of others, and even in the eyes of the servant, so the servant should abandon all thoughts of justice. There is no need to download rights, try to change fate and win back dominance. It’s better to freeze - a step to the left, a step to the right... - and you fly into the abyss. There will be a desire and opportunity to see each other less often, do not resist this, get a break. If the relationship becomes tense and unbearable, do not hope that it will pass and that it will improve: the vector ring does not spin back.

The master in a marriage must feel sorry for the servant, understanding that he is not to blame for his mistakes, the reason for everything is the vector law. After parting with the owner (if you succeeded, which is desirable in most cases), never try to take revenge on him, much less return.

The option of a “temporary” divorce is often encountered: some relief before a new reunion. This option is no good at all - if you’ve already managed to escape, then you have to scurry away without looking back, there may not be a second chance. If you are unable to leave a vector marriage, then take comfort in the fact that life is your temporary state; the fact that other marriages are not much better; the fact that other marriages compared to vector ones are sheer boredom.

Finally, advice for vector lovers: do not rush to formalize your vector marriage, do not rush to give birth to vector children. Whether Pushkin or Blok will be born to you (and these poets were born into vector families) is not yet known, but the risk of turning your life, the life of your loved ones, the lives of your children into a living hell is too great. Take your time, take yours, swim in the stormy sea of ​​feelings, suffer, be delighted, rise and fall, but do not drag this pandemonium into the sacred institution of marriage. Marriage needs balance; it is designed to save energy, and not waste it endlessly. In the end, out of 144 possible marriages, only 24 are vector, and there are much more normal (equilibrium) marriages - 120.

So, there are almost no recommendations. Unless there are possible types of compensation that a servant can pay to the owner. You can give the owner your youth, you can give your authority and skill, or you can simply buy him off with money. Try to neglect a servant if he is a millionaire or a general secretary, a people's artist or a Nobel laureate!

However, it is worth remembering that everything is ground in a vector meat grinder; neither Nikita Khrushchev, nor Ted Turner, nor James Joyce, nor Ilya Glazunov are immune from humiliation (all of the listed persons have been in vector marriages). Try to see yourself from the outside, and if not be horrified, then at least be surprised. Remember that the strength of the vector impact is directly proportional to the time of contact, therefore, by increasing the frequency of separation, you will weaken the hurricane. If you want to avoid too violent excesses, try to live up to your role, one should be a kind and caring master, the other an executive and devoted servant. However, these tips are similar to recommendations for preventing a volcanic eruption. Sometimes a good surgical quarrel is more useful than half-hearted appeasement therapy. In a word, if you don’t want the “last days of Pompeii”, stay away from volcanoes.

A servant who intends to run away from his master should look as insignificant as possible in his master's eyes. This is not so difficult, because every day the servant's personality melts away. With his insignificance and pitiful behavior, the servant lulls one's vigilance, and when the owner becomes completely insolent, one must suddenly give in. After escaping from the owner, do not communicate with him under any circumstances for some time. When health is restored (we are talking about all types of health: physical, moral and mental), then you can meet him, but maintaining a distance, because the owner, once he has sucked the blood out of you, will always want to fall to the source again, especially if the source has recovered so well.

Advice for those who are completely happy in a vector marriage and consider everything said to be the author’s invention (usually the owner of the couple): live serenely and do not pay attention to anyone, because you have already gone into your own world, and we remain in this, and understand each other We won't be able to have a friend anymore. I urge the rest to continue anti-vector propaganda, the results of which to date have already been enormous, and in the future they will reverse the balance between darkness and light, good and evil.

If you would like to share your own or a vector story you know, I will be glad to know it. After all, you can talk and write about these relationships endlessly, and everyone will endlessly read and listen with interest.

Astrology of love and relationships. Your date of birth will tell you how to meet your other half and create a strong family Solyanik Katerina

Year of birth and vector couples

Year of birth and vector couples

Of course, eastern astrology is much more complex than those horoscopes based on the zodiac signs of the eastern calendar, which are widely known. However, even these twelve characteristics can at the first stage clarify the situation with the prospect of building a relationship between two people. And the point here is not so much in the own characteristics of each sign from the Rat (Mouse) to the Boar (Pig), but in certain combinations between them. There are very few astrologers in the Western world who have penetrated to the very essence of Eastern astrology. On the one hand, this is due to too large a gap in the worldview of peoples and with differences in cultural traditions, and on the other hand, due to the fact that Western astrology itself can reveal so many secrets about each person and his life that it simply does not make much sense master parallel methods of considering the same thing. However, some methods of Eastern astrology have no analogues in the Western tradition. And first of all, this is the patronage of certain animals every year of the 60-year cycle.

To accurately determine your eastern calendar sign, you should remember that the new year in the eastern calendar does not begin on January 1, but with the onset of the first new moon after the Sun passes into the zodiac sign of Aquarius.

Data on the beginning of the new year according to the eastern calendar and the zodiac protection of your year of birth can be found in table 1.

Table 1

The beginning of the new year according to the eastern calendar and zodiac patronage

Being born in a year under the auspices of one of the signs of the eastern calendar determines, as it were, a general style of behavior and attitude towards the world, the ability to establish connections with society in general and with a specific person in particular. It would seem that further we should outline the general characteristics of each sign of the eastern zodiac. But in this case, what is more interesting is that there is a strange, almost mystical connection between these signs, which lays down an inviolable law of attraction between people born under these signs. This connection is called a “vector ring” or “vector relationship”.

Vector relationships are 12 combinations between the signs of the eastern calendar, which determine an inexplicable, but almost fatal attraction between people born under these signs.

Here are the 12 combinations:

Rat – Horse

Horse – Boar

Boar - Dragon

Dragon – Rabbit

Rabbit – Rooster

Rooster – Dog

Dog - Cow

Cow – Tiger

Tiger – Goat

Goat – Snake

Snake – Monkey

Monkey – Rat

Relations between people born under the signs that make up a vector pair in no way depend on the character that each of these signs promises a person.

In Fig. 1 shows the circle of the eastern zodiac indicating these pairs. As is easy to see, there are no geometric patterns or symmetries that define these pairs.

In the same way, it is impossible to find a proper explanation for the attraction between people born under the signs of a vector pair, no matter how much you read into their characteristics. But it exists, and in confirmation of this you can find an endless number of examples of fatal love in history.

Rice. 1. Vector eastern zodiac couples

And here the question arises: does meeting your vector match promise happiness in life? It is impossible to give a definite answer to this question. The fact is that a vector pair does not determine the quality of the relationship; it indicates a completely different piece of information. People born under the signs that form vector pairs can love each other to the point of exhaustion, or they can also hate each other to the point of frenzy. A vector couple is an inexplicable attraction to each other. In such couples, nothing is gray and inconspicuous, all feelings are heightened to the limit, however, for each of the couple it is different.

The fact is that in every vector pair there is a “master” and a “servant”. In the list above, the first in the pair is the “master” and the second is the “servant”. This is also shown in Fig. 1. The terms themselves that define the role in a vector pair are very symbolic and fully reflect the essence of the interactions between the people forming this pair. If we take for comparison any other relationships, that is, those not determined by a vector couple by year of birth, then we can say that throughout life, either the first partner will dominate the second, or, conversely, the second will dominate the first. It depends on so many factors. In a vector pair, the “servant” partner is an eternal energy donor, and the “master” partner is, if not a vampire, then the one who takes a place on the pedestal of honor. The most interesting thing is that the distribution of roles in such relationships is always completely voluntary, and sometimes unconscious. The “servant” is ready to give all of himself without fail and sacrifice himself for the sake of the “master”. The “master” is absolutely sure that he has undivided power over the “servant”. But this characteristic in no way speaks of what the union will turn out to be - giving both happiness and joy or destroying the very essence of the personality of one of the couple or even both.

If all other indicators of compatibility are excellent and people are in love with each other, then they can live their whole lives happily, and this will be a fairy-tale union of people infinitely devoted to each other. If the relationship is ambiguous in all respects, or even bad, and people need to break up, then it will be a difficult breakup. Here a strange rule comes into play: “I’m worse off without you than with you.” Of course, nothing is impossible in this world, and divorce is also possible for such a couple, but it will not go smoothly for either one or the other partner.

Having become acquainted with the concept of “vector pairs,” someone may decide: “Wow, that’s a blast!” Others, on the contrary, will be inspired by the idea of ​​​​searching for their vector half. It must be said that both are wrong. Vector relationships promise neither happiness nor troubles. This is only the strongest energy connection between people, forcing the “servant” to sacrifice himself to the “master”, to give him all of himself without reserve, and the “master” to consume energy and patronize the “servant”, forever remaining unattainable. And only due to personal characteristics and individual character, some are able to take one of the roles in such a pair, while others are not. But the main thing is that it is never easy.

Chapter 5 The Superpersonal Higher Self and the Security of the Couple Two books, The Human Biocomputer and The Center of the Cyclone, give insight into something larger than the person acting in his life. These books give specific examples of such actions. The term "Suprapersonal"